Mitchell J. Rabin, M.A., L.AC.

What’s next? You could say.  Whoever heard of such a thing?  No doubt it’ll be called “The Love Diet”.  Some will immediately wonder just what would be on the menu.  Interesting and inspiring as that wondering may be, that’s not the main point here, disappointing to some; but rather how love, romantic and universal,  and developing the deeper experience of it can assist in weight management and indeed, both common sense and research indicates that it does.   Those for whom weight management is an issue have no doubt tried just about everything—dietary changes, exercise regimens, lifestyle alterations of all sorts, pranayama breathing exercises and hatha yoga, but when was the last time that your health professional or nutritionist recommended more love? That’s exactly what I’m recommending here, several forms of love no less, and why.  If you’re already smiling or laughing, even smirking, it’s already beginning to work.

What Happens in the Experience of Laughter, Joy, Smiling & Love & Their Opposites

What we’re really looking at is the powerful emotion, or if you’d prefer to call it, impassioned experience, or spiritual attitude, of love has, like every other emotion, a neuro-physiological correlate.  As we know from research, laughter and smiling are good medicine (see Norman Cousens, for one), the experience of happiness and overall well-being, a perfect parallel.  The reason is that typical chemicals release during a stressful experience, which, in some degree, we’re most all in more time during the day than any of us would ever like to know or admit, are adrenalin and cortisol.  The release of these into the bloodstream, actually a daily, if not hourly occurrence depending on where we live, the nature of our work, family life, dynamics of our relationships, is, if minimum, close to routine.  Our bodies, as a result, are worn down, if gradually, by these natural, yet chemical toxins.  Excellent at a time of necessity such as a life-threatening event or climactic sporting event say, but as a routine, it is costly.  This is going on, we’ll just say, a fair amount.  It can lead in fact to chronic fatigue, insomnia, migraines and weight problems.  For a taste  more of this, read why your fatigued adrenals need extra support.

Nothing like a little bit of Love, or a lot?

So instead, let’s consider the opposite experience.   This is one thing I don’t think we can overdose on. This is the experience of ease (instead of “dis-ease”), of joy, happiness, pleasure and love.  Well, we see a cascade of correlating chemicals alright, but they’re the ones it appears that the body-mind enjoys and revels in.  They are endorphins and happy hormones, among which is the love-and-cuddle hormone, Oxytocin.  Now we’re talking!  In fact, when we are relaxed, our cells are relaxed.  After all, what are we, besides consciousness, on the physical level, we are a community of cells.  What we are, they are or become.  The work of cellular biologist, Dr. Bruce Lipton, in his seminal work,  The Biology of Belief, we see that relationship, and the work of epigenetics, outlined for us, a domain which shows us how our thoughts, feelings and beliefs are acting upon and influencing our cellular activity, creating health or illness, expansion and fluidity, or contraction and stagnation.

Let’s Make Love, Balance our Hormones & Our Weight!

Where we end up in a practical way here is that the more we love, from our lover to our parents, to our pet or the universal love of all life and humanity, the experience of this opens the flow of our circulation, releases the most fun of chemicals into the bloodstream and rather than toxifying our system, our inner flow is awash with pleasure-inducing bio-electricity and bio-chemistry.  This is turn allows for more efficient metabolic function, which means, among other things, better digestion, elimination, cellular and organic, and the use of food instead of the storage of food.

Eat, Sleep, Drink & Pray Moderately, While Making Love Abundantly

Does it matter what food we eat?  Of course it does, and the article about the 13 Rules of Diet discusses this thoroughly.  Does it matter what our drinking, sleeping and exercise habits are?  You bet it does!  Success  is a confluence of all aspects of lifestyle and daily choices.  And now add loving.  Add cuddling, hugging, affection and yes, love-making.

Other than the increased efficiency of the body/cell life that occurs through relaxation and alpha states with a coherent mind/brain from such things as meditation, Chi-Kung, T’ai-Chi Chuan, yoga and experiencing states of love so that Oxytocin is released and all the other happy bio-chemistry, the real basis of success here, when our sense of well-being is buffed with these experiences, all a form by the way, in my world view, of love, our minds are tuned to life as “a happening” itself, as a juicy flow of life-force.  The interest in snacking, sweets, eating in an imbalanced way, virtually vanishes.  So, rather effortlessly, habits are modified.  The interest in further somatic self-expression is turbo-charged.  Dancing, running, jumping, the desire for movement altogether is increased.  Your body yearns to express (literally “to press out”) the good feeling of love and well, share it with the world.  I believe, and have found, that this is our nature.

Well-being is realized through the amount of deep relaxation that occurs when we allow ourselves to experience the depth of love.  Both research and self-observation has indicated that the experience of love, of touch, of cuddling, has shown rather concretely, not insignificant results in weight loss (http://www.cuddleparty.com/articles/weightloss.cfm)

If You Were God, What Would You Do?

If you were in charge of designing humans, wouldn’t you make what was as joyous as loving, and delicious as love-making something extremely healthy?  Well, guess what?  It is!  And not only does our good sense and intuition tell us that, but science does too.  What might seem short in research in this area, which is still abundant, we can infer much from the research of the opposite: the effect of stress on metabolism, organic function, sex drive and weight management.  It’s not pretty.  We can flip to the opposite and the story changes radically: it’s very pretty.

The O-Experience

And to go further, while the crowning consummation of romantic love is love-making, and of that, the O-experience, Orgasmic Bliss (and all the movement to get there), the O-here stands for “OHHHH” as well as for “Oxytocin”.  Without question, the O-Experience is a big and dynamic one, and people may gain a new level of respect for that very wholesome all-embracing, awesome vowel.

Stress Interference & Inference: Building Toward the Weightlessness of Love

Looked at from another angle, one of the great assists in weight gain is stress increase.  Stress in the body tightens not just the muscles but the organs and the ligaments around the organs.  One burst of strong anger can wipe out a morning’s worth of high-quality Vitamin C and even wreak some damage to the liver.  One sudden experience of fear can do same.  During these emotional experiences, the last thing one is feeling is the exuberance and weightlessness of love.  Love relaxes, fear stresses.

What we know about what Dr. Herbert Benson of Harvard Medical School referred to some 30 years ago as “the relaxation response” is a state of being in which blood circulation is easy and flowing, chi, as we call it in Mandarin also maintains its smooth flow through the meridians, breathe is gentle, rhythmic and flowing, and so of course, is metabolic function, the respiration, nourishment and excretion of the cells, all trillion or two of them in one human body.

Go with the flow

What happens when all systems so smoothly and naturally flow?  Well, I’ll say that “love happens”, an uprising, if you will, of well-being.  If someone you love is nearby or in your thoughts, Oxytocin levels, known often as ‘the love hormone’, also rises.  Endorphins are released through the brain and nervous system, and an overall sense of ease is ever –present.  It is actually, without exaggeration, a gentle, subtle form of bliss that permeates the nervous system.  When all systems are in this state of flow, all feels in harmony, because it is.  As a result, metabolic processes will often work optimally, unless there is something else to interfere with them.  If metabolic processes are uninterrupted, cellular digestion and excretion occur ‘in the flow’, and optimize burn, energy efficiency.

Expanding Love & Her Definitions

I am expanding the definition of love from our usual notion of romantic love, delicious as that is, to a larger, embracing sense of love, which occurs as a normal function of our nervous system, if not our chosen philosophical or spiritual outlook.  When we say “love heals”, we may want to understand that love is a natural state of mind, of brain, of nervous system.  It goes there naturally, but we interrupt it with our ‘own agenda’, our own business which often create soap operas in the middle of the exquisite experience of being in love with life itself.

The Psychological States of “Holding On” and “Letting Go”

Our stress levels send signals to the body-brain that there’s something to be alarmed about, and had better ‘hold on’ to whatever food you’ve got, because you may be needing it for a while.  This is one of the ways stress leads to weight gain.  Stress is certainly not a friend, until you make it a friend.  And the best way to manage such a relationship is by helping to dissolve such a friend, like the wicked witch of the west melting before your very eyes.

I explained how stress causes tightness, leads to the experiences of anxiety and fear, and biologically, we’re programmed then to “hold on” and this leads to fat accumulation.

Relaxing in the face of crisis, for instance, along with relaxing in the face of everything else, allows the body to digest both food and its experience, a point that cannot be emphasized enough.  When we digest both, we’re not holding on to anything, and can flow with the moment, and our metabolic rate is balanced and efficient.

Burning Calories Through Love-Making?  Have You A Better Way?

Of course love can figure in to weight management if you find yourself making love with your partner a lot.  Can you think of a better way to burn calories and increase muscle tone?  If so, please write to me right away and let me know.  To date, it’s certainly the most fun and delightful ways that I’ve known.  A regimen of that has helped me manage weight for some time.

Love of Self, Love of Life: Expanding Outward

But of course, I’m talking about something inclusive of, but also broader than that, and that’s the experience of a quality of life wherein one is simply joyous about being alive, and the love for life flows through one’s cells, and this relaxed, balanced perspective literally allows for an attitude of ‘letting go’.  So not only do you get the physiological, metabolic benefit of “the relaxation response”, but you get an attitude that promotes ease in interactions, ease with oneself, and a mind that is more sponge-like, more in alpha, and absorbing words you may say to yourself, such as “I am attaining my perfect weight, my body is healthy and responds to my every affirmation”, and the like.

The Quantum Leap into Love & Health at the Same Time

Not only does weight management occur naturally, but one’s love-quotient just grew by a quantum leap.  If one is married or in a relationship, the partner can only be enlivened by this kind of ‘exercise’.  And if one is single and looking, it can only make more people look at you! The quality of your life is enhanced , your weight isn’t being managed, or rather, mismanaged by the effect of stress, and all you are doing is increasing your experience and capacity for love.

The result of “The Love Diet” is better health all-round, weight reduction, and my God, the experience of what we all want, more love. Applying the points of this article to your life, will only make it brighter, happier and lighter.

Everywhere you turn with this Love Diet, you win.

By Mitchell J. Rabin, M.A., L.AC.

Copyright 2010 LifeHealthSecrets

Another way of saying it is Take Charge of your Life by Amping Up your Brain. Yes, there’s a lot to be said about a distinction in nutrition that few people really talk about.

That distinction is based on recognizing the two main forms of energy that exist in our cells, all of them, and most notably the nervous system and brain.  There is the bio-chemical form of energy with which most people are familiar.  This is so because the mainstay of nutrition addresses different kinds of bio-chemical, bio-available nutrients in the form of vitamins and phyto-nutrients, the family of B’s, C, A, D, E, K and on.  These are, make no mistake, vitally important to health and moreso, optimal wellness.  The bio-chemistry of foods, herbs, nuts, seeds and roots are something human nutrition requires.

The other less discussed, but perhaps even more important form of energy, dare I suggest, is electrical.  It is based largely on the mineral composition of a food, plant or herb, or a specific, if not precise combination of different foods or nutrients.  It is the electrical energy which charges the cell and allows it to even digest, assimilate the nutrition found in the vitamins.  Without the charge, nothing.  With the charge with even few vitamins, you still have motive strength and power.

So to focus on what causes “electrical aliveness” is to focus on what causes vibrancy, and what we generally refer to as “energy”.  When we say someone is “energetic”, we are not typically saying “that person is well-nourished, look his cells are so happy”; we are saying that there is a “charge”, like an energy field or aura around that person.  That energy field, also referred to as a “bio-field”, that aura, is electrical in nature.

When we hop into our car, even if we have a full tank of gas, a crankcase topped off with oil and a powerful engine ready to rev up to high horsepower, it’s going nowhere without the electrical connection in the starter to the motor, which comes initially from the battery.  This is how the human body also works.  It needs that spark to get it going and to keep it going, sustained over time.

This electrical charge is what we also refer to generally as ‘life-force’.  When we eat foods or take natural, high-quality supplements, while we certainly ingest the bio-chemical nutrition and this feeds our cells, the cells capacity to assimilate as well as to eliminate waste is a function of the electrical charge of the cell.  Cellular metabolism is a function of the capacitance of the cell.

The higher the capacitance, the more efficient the transport of nutrients into the cell through the membrane (yes, think “brain” because it is—see the work of cellular biologist, Dr. Bruce Lipton) as well as oxygen and carbon dioxide transfer.  When the capacitance is over 1313 pico Farads for a male, he is extremely healthy.  Below 381 and he’s in the danger zone.  Extremely healthy women will be above 1009 or extremely unhealthy, below 303.  So health is very much measurable by electrical capacitance of a cell.

This charge we also absorb from food in a very interesting process of absorbing the plant’s life-force—that’s the main thing from food, from plants, that keeps us alive.  The quality of that life-force is what molds and shapes our own.  When we eat plants from the Amazon Rainforest, for instance, we are getting an “life-force imprint” that we wouldn’t get had we just eaten deadened or dare I think it, micro-waved food.

In my work in Energy Medicine, using the body scan/bio-feedback technology called the LIFE System, we are, in effect, measuring the capacitance of different areas, cellular colonies of the body.  It’s fascinating, and when we see imbalance, we can then “charge up” that area or system so it returns to homeostasis.

Someone recently said to me that if we are what we eat, let’s eat billionaires!  Laughing aside, the energy billionaires have, at least in the bank account, is another form of life-force.  This article is about absorbing electro-nutrition into our cells, a different kind of life-force, but the joke does show that what we do need for optimum health and wellness is to be aware of and make sure that we have ample electro-nutrition as a mainstay of our diet.

By Mitchell Rabin, M.A., L.AC.
www.abetterworld.net